Counting your blessings

David Finn is living the golf fanatic's dream. He has caddied for Hunter Mahan. He has earned both the respect and friendship of Phil Mickelson. Most of the top golfers on the PGA Tour know him by name.

Whatever image you had in your mind of this gentleman, you're in for a shock.

David is confined to a wheelchair, with shriveled limbs and a mouth that can't form words.

But he's smart, has a great sense of humor, and a big passion for golf.

Phil Mickelson first spotted him in 2005, sitting in the gallery at the 14th green of the PGA Championship course. Phil won the tournament, and he shared his joy with his David. Soon, other PGA golfers befriended him too. Players often give him tickets to the big events - so far he has attended 27 tournaments.

Obviously, David's life is not easy. He communicates by typing with a single, crooked finger. He will never walk or be able to swing a club. But if you ask David, he'd say his life is pretty sweet. He is having a great time pursuing his passion for golf in his own way, and the pro golfers love him for it. Just look at him here with Phil!

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So what does that have to do with us anxiety sufferers?

Well, it shows us that we may have hinderances in life, but it doesn't mean we shouldn't - or can't - enjoy it. We still deserve to pursue our passions, and we deserve to be loved. We deserve to have fun. If David can do it, why can't we?